During our recent trip in Washington D.C. the boys both got to sleep in the same room as their parents. We did not realize until we returned home how much Andrew enjoyed the experience.
After we returned for several weeks Andrew woke up at least once and sometimes more between midnight and three A.M. and joined his parents, especially his mother, in bed. At times Cameron joined his brother in his wandering. Needless to say returning children to their beds and/or sharing the bed limited our quality of sleep.
Eventually, there was a compromise made. Andrew couldn't sleep in the bed, but could sleep on the floor. This was not a good compromise; Andrew still woke up his mom every night; who then spent several hours trying to go back to sleep.

In an epiphany, stroke of genius, or bad parenting Ben stumbled upon a solution. Just across the street from our house is a hawaiian shaved ice shack. The ice shack made a significant impression on Andrew last year.
As soon as the trailer was put into place this year he became excited about going there for "ice treats!" Everytime we passed the ice shack, Andrew gave us updates on the progress of the location set-up:
"They have tables!"
"They have umbrellas!"
"They umbrellas open!"
"They OPEN!"
The epiphany, stroke of genius, or bad parenting alluded to earlier? Ben, bribed his eldest child. If Andrew stayed in bed all night and did not wake up his mommy the next day he would get an "ice treat." Call it a Hail Mary or shot in the dark. Andrew immediately agreed. Time would tell whether he would remember during the middle of the night.
That night; Ben and Wendy slept beautifully without any nocturnal interruptions from little boys. Even when Ben woke up at six A.M he did not realize the motivational power of the "ice treat." An hour and a half later, Ben returned to the house to find the two boys happily, but quietly, playing on the couch in the front room; without a Mommy. This was surprising because usually in the morning the parent's bedroom door is slammed open with exclamation of "Morning! Sun up!"
Instead, Daddy entered the rooms to whisper of, "Shhhh! No wake mommy!!" Andrew made sure to go to the bathroom quietly, washed his hands quietly, and made sure the Cameron also did not get close to the bedroom door. His motivation was so high that when Ben finally went in to wake up "Mommy" he had to explain to Andrew that he would still get his ice treat.
 |
Bubblegum "Ice Treat" |
Since then? Andrew sleeps in his own bed. Mommy and Daddy sleep through the night. Who knew the power of "ice treats?"